Thursday, February 14, 2013

Christine Rains: Writing Romance

Christine Rains is here today to share with us some tips for writing romance. Take it away, Christine!
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It's that time of year when love is in the air. Hearts decorate store windows and chocolates fill their shelves. The best restaurants are booked up and jewelers tell you every kiss begins with a diamond. There's the lovely scent of fresh flowers and greeting cards.

None of this sounds particularly romantic, does it? No, certainly not. How would we write romance stories if it was only about pretty baubles and good food? Romance is the most popular genre for a reason. It's about two people falling in love. It's about intense emotions and noble actions. It isn't an easy tale to write.

Here are four key things to remember when writing romance:

1. Sympathetic and realistic characters. Even if you're writing a love story about vampires, the reader has to be able to identify with the main characters. They must have human emotions and flaws, and they must tackle conflict realistically.

2. Conflict and common ground. Of course there has to be something or someone trying to prevent the couple from having their happily ever after. It might even be the protagonists themselves wrestling with inner turmoil. But for a relationship to be believable, they must find common ground somewhere. A goal, a belief, or a beloved hobby. Opposites do attract, but something other than lust and external conflict must bind them together.

3. The relationship must be central to the plot. If you could write the same story without the relationship, then it isn't a romance story. The romance must propel the story forward.

4. Sacrifice. The characters must be willing to give up everything to be with the person they love. In some stories, it's their own lives, but not every tale requires it. Yet it must feel like the ultimate sacrifice to the one giving whatever it is up.

We may be bombarded by the commercial aspects of Valentines Day, but we are celebrating loving another person despite their flaws and spending time with them doing something both of you enjoy. We realize that our lives wouldn't be the same without that person in it, and we'd be willing to sacrifice anything to make sure they stay.

Happy Valentines Day!

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73 comments:

Kyra Lennon said...

Excellent post!

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

Good points, Christine. And common ground is important, especially in real life. (Because the relationship won't make it otherwise.)
Happy Valentine's Day, Christine and Lynda!

Jemi Fraser said...

That is a very fine looking dragon slayer! :)
I love reading and writing romance - that intense emotion is so much fun to work with :)

Unknown said...

'...something other than lust and external conflict must bind them together.'

Nothing worse than picking up a (what you hope is going to be a lovely) romance only to have lust as the driving force. I'm a sucker for a good love story, but there HAS to be that inner turmoil & external conflict just like you said. Otherwise the book gets dumped in the 'didn't finish' pile.

Great tidbits of wisdom! Thanks for the post.

Christine Rains said...

Thank you so much for hosting me today, Lynda!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Kyra!

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Alex. Happy Valentine's Day to you too!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Jemi! I do love looking at that cover too.

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Terri. I've done the same thing with books.

DEZMOND said...

I'd give much more than a kiss for a diamond LOL :) But you all knew me is a bit slutty.... :)
Happy Valentines, Christine and Lyndy!

Carol Kilgore said...

Great guidelines, Christine.
Happy Valentine's Day to all!

Nick Wilford said...

These are great points to remember, definitely has to be "all or nothing". Happy Valentine's Day!

shelly said...

Lovely post! happy Valentine's Day!

Hugs and chocolate,
Shelly

Meradeth Houston said...

Definitely loving point #2--something that's true in a novel and in real life!

Christine Rains said...

*LOL* Happy Valentines to you too! Thanks for the laugh.

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Carol. Happy Valentines Day to you too!

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Nick. Happy Valentines Day!

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Shelly! Mmm, chocolate.

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Meradeth.

LTM said...

GREAT tips, Christine! I agree with all and don't think I could add more! Ahh, vive l'amour! :D <3

Suze said...

Beautifully encapsulated, Christine.

Unknown said...

I like what you said about none of that having to do with romance. It doesn't. It's putting the other person first.

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, LTM!

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Suze.

Christine Rains said...

Exactly! Thanks for commenting, Melanie.

Carol Riggs said...

Oh wow, good advice. I have to go run my own story through the sieve of #2...other things besides physical attraction and the external conflict binding 2 people together! Happy Valentine's Day, Christine and Lyn!!

Patsy said...

Just like with real life love it's the emotions which matter, not the stuff we buy.

cleemckenzie said...

I see Christine's book everywhere today! Yay for another writer.

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Carol. Happy Valentines Day to you too!

Christine Rains said...

That's it exactly. :)

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Lee! :)

Romance Reader said...

Hi Christine and Lynda!

Great post and examples. The best example of good writing is when we sympathise with the bad character.

Nas

Luanne G. Smith said...

Definitely want to believe the relationship is about more than lust and external conflict. :)) Good stuff.

Bethany Elizabeth said...

I don't know if I could ever write in the romance genre - the character depth and interesting inner dialogue needed to keep it interesting and fresh (which romance authors do so well) would intimidate me. :) But your four principals (well, except 3) hold pretty true across genres, so thanks for the advice! :)

Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said...

Any time, Christine :)

Christine Rains said...

Hi Nas! Thank you and that's so true.

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, L.G. We need so much more to our characters than just that!

Christine Rains said...

You're welcome, Bethany! I love writing about people and relationships. That's why romance fascinates me so.

T. Roger Thomas said...

Great post! I agree that creating memorable characters is important.

Neurotic Workaholic said...

This is good advice, especially because I was struggling with how to incorporate romance into my own story. I especially agree with the part about sacrifice; I read stories about protagonists who fell in love with selfish people, and those romances usually didn't last long because the selfish people were unwilling to make sacrifices for the people they claimed to love.

Anonymous said...

Yes, he is.

Those four things are important to keep in mind. Thanks for the romance writing tips.

Anonymous said...

Great points, and they are all so true;)

Yolanda Renée said...

Love all the different takes of the romance / love and Valentine's Day!

Great post!

Bonnee Crawford said...

Sounds like four ingredients common to any epic love-story, with plenty of reasons for the plot and characters to be believable. Thanks for sharing :)

Susan Fields said...

What a great cover - wow!

Rachna Chhabria said...

Thanks for sharing this helpful post. I plan to write atleast one romantic book in this lifetime. Will keep all the points in mind when I start writing a romance.

Melissa said...

Great post! I love a good romance. :)

Christine Rains said...

Thanks for commenting!

Christine Rains said...

Thank you. I completely agree. I see a lot of romances that are one-sided. They get the happily ever after, but you know it couldn't possibly last long based on what you read.

Christine Rains said...

You're welcome, Medeia!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Tania!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Yolanda! I've seen a lot of romance posts around this week.

Christine Rains said...

You're welcome, Bonnee!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Susan! I'm very fond of my dragonslayer.

Christine Rains said...

You're welcome, Rachna. And good luck with your book whenever you start to write it!

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Melissa!

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emaginette said...

Simple and so true. Thanks for the post. :-)

Christine Rains said...

Thanks for stopping by. I'll be doing the Challenge this year. I'm excited about it!

Christine Rains said...

You're welcome. Have a lovely weekend. :)

Michelle Wallace said...

Great tips Christine. Thank you.
I don't think that I'll be able to write good romance scenes... not that I've tried... it's just a feeling...

Unknown said...

I love the first tip about sympathetic characters - so many writers seem to fail at that, believing the idea or the concept is the most important thing about their story. If you don't care about what happens to the characters though, the rest really doesn't matter. Good stuff.

Misha Gerrick said...

Excellent tips! I especially agree with your tip about the characters needing common ground.

In so many "romance novels", the characters just have sex and then suddenly realize they're in love. There's actually so much more to it than that.

Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said...

It's a skill unto itself...

Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said...

Yep, definitely. It's the characters that make the story.

Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said...

Yep, often the romance is forgotten.

Christine Rains said...

Thank you, Michelle. For the longest time, I never considered myself a romance author, but suddenly I realized I was. It was a bit shocking because all I thought I was doing was practicing good characterization.

Christine Rains said...

I completely agree, Chris. My stories are character driven.

Christine Rains said...

Thanks, Misha. I get so tired of romances like that. I need great characters.

Karen Lange said...

Thank you so much for these wonderful tips. I need to bookmark this. :) Nice to meet you, Christine! Thanks, Lynda, for hosting!

nutschell said...

Wonderful tips, Christine!.
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Unknown said...

Very excellent points! Especially the conflict. Those scenes full of TENSION between characters are such fun to write!

Unknown said...

Great list of what makes up a romance novel. One that ticks all those boxes is usually a great read.