After a few years of writing under my belt with a few short stories, a novelette and a Daily Devotional book (Cling to God) published, I feel the biggest pitfall writers come across is the doubts that surface when too many people offer advice.
When we first start writing, we throw ourselves into the task. Later we discover we have a lot to learn and we are eager to learn. That's a good thing. I will always advocate the need to continually learn our craft. However, with the advent of easily accessed information via blogs and other social media avenues, we are inundated by so many supposed 'rules' and opinions, that the waters can grow muddy. Suddenly we think we can't write that, we're doing it all wrong, and we have to please everyone.
My humble advice is, yes, learn the guidelines and why those guidelines are in place, but understand they can be broken. Your story trumps all. If it demands it starts on a dark and stormy night, then let it start on a dark and stormy night. Sure, you will cop some grief by other writers who only see the rules, but are they really your audience? Most readers won't care about those details if your story is awesome, written in a way that makes that story shine. Ultimately it's only you who knows that way.
Yes, it's important to have critique partners and editors (which is another pitfall by thinking you don't need them). You will find they may have opposing views. You can't please everyone. When in doubt, consider all options, consider the validity of their advice and the experience behind that advice, then go with what your story is crying out for. Does the advice enhance the story, make it more powerful? Is your reader missing the point of your scene? Why is your reader missing the point of your scene? Can you adjust that scene so your next reader doesn't miss that point?
What's the biggest pitfall you've come across on your writing/publication journey?
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Genre: Young Adult Romance
Theme: Masquerade
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I agree, Lynda. Learn and listen to the 'rules' but then make your own and find your style.
ReplyDeleteExactly. And it takes courage to stand firm with certainty rather than stubbornness.
DeleteOne of the most difficult things that I had to learn is that rules are not laws that cannot be modified. They are plenty of exceptions and there is not such thing as writing by the book.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your insight. I so agree with you.
Shalom aleichem,
Pat G @ EverythingMustChange
I think a lot of writers struggle with that.
DeleteEverybody has an opinion which is why you have to go with your gut instinct.
ReplyDeleteGut based on careful consideration rather than blind refusal to consider all options.
DeleteYes, you need critique partners. It's obvious when someone hasn't had a second set of eyeballs on a manuscript.
ReplyDeleteI've hit so many pitfalls in the past 16 years, I could post one a day for the rest of the year.
lol, I don't doubt it. As a publisher, you'd see so many.
DeleteKnowing the rules is important so when you do break them, it's for a real reason, done on purpose, and you can explain why you chose to do it that way.
ReplyDeleteYes!! Exactly. It becomes purposeful.
DeleteFeedback is important but can be frustrating when it is conflicting. Ultimately, you have to decide what rules and advice to follow.
ReplyDeleteOften you need to learn to read between the lines when it comes to feedback.
DeleteI agree that critique partners/groups are critical. Better to have the raw material reviewed unpublished by a few, than forever in print for all to see. And yes, sometimes the action does take place on a dark and stormy night! :-)
ReplyDeleteYes! Get it right before publication so you don't lose readers because of silly things that could've been fixed.
DeleteThat's so true about having to work through conflicting advice and opinions. It isn't easy, but it's really important to consider everyone's views. Your work can only improve as a result.
ReplyDeleteExactly. It's crucial you allow others to read your work before you send it out into the big wide world
DeleteEveryone has an opinion about how our story should move, but we must follow our gut.
ReplyDeleteIt does take practice following that gut, though. It's about balancing those opinion with what's right for the story.
DeleteOoh, this one is good, Lynda--too much advice. That's so true because often it contradicts. Or seems to. And only the fullness of the writing journey clarifies the confusion. Nice post!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Jacqui
DeleteGood advice, not being bombared by all the advice. Everyone has an opinion and there's nothing wrong with hearing what they have to say, but ulimately, your opinion as the writer is the most important.
ReplyDeleteExactly, only you know what you are trying to convey.
DeleteIn the beginning it was creating tension--but not for tension sake. Tough one. :-)
ReplyDeleteAnna from elements of emaginette
It is tough, but gets easier over time with practice.
DeleteThere's definitely an excess of advice out there and some of it contradicts other. Apart from the basic rules of grammar, I think you just have to do what works for you.
ReplyDeleteEven grammar can be killed if it's killed for a reason that's relevant to the story or characters. Nothing is an absolute when it comes to art.
DeleteI think you're referencing the "too many cooks in the kitchen" phenomenon, which can also become a problem when you're part of a large writing group. You hit the nail on the head when you wrote about trying to write something that will please everyone. It just can't be done. That's why it's important to assess the source of the advice/opinion on your work, and to always take others' thoughts with a grain of salt. Thanks for the post, and happy writing to you. :)
ReplyDeleteWith this philosophy, it becomes easier to deal with reviews as well.
DeleteVery true. You look at all of this advice and so much contradicts the other. Go with what works and screw the rest.
ReplyDeleteLove the way you phrased it. Succinct.
DeleteDefinitely true. Only YOU know what's right for your story. It sort of depends on how much you trust your critique partners, too. They all have strengths and weaknesses. But ultimately, it's up to the author!
ReplyDeleteExactly right. It's why it can take time to find the right critique partners for you too.
DeleteI got stuck in the rules rut for a while. And thinking I had to have a group tell me how and what to write. CP's and writing books are necessary, but at some point the writer just has to trust their own instincts.
ReplyDeleteExactly. It' about weighing the advice carefully rather than simply going with everything everyone suggests.
DeleteTrusting your own instincts and owning your own writing is something that you grow into, helped along by not recognizing your story when too many eyes have roved over it and picked the 'eyes' out of it. A horrible experience. So is it a case of 'Writer. Love yourself and your writing.' My problem was I thought everyone knew more than I did and that's not always true, LOL.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I thought that too. Silly us...
DeleteYes, too much advice can enhance the doubts. Great advice.
ReplyDeleteHappy belated IWSG!
Thanks, Juneta
DeleteYes! Great advice to stick to your story and only use the rules to improve your writing, not destroy it. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Loni
DeleteI think one of the pitfalls I've faced is that my stories don't "read" like other people's stories; I've read through novels and short stories that are in the genre that I want to write, and I feel like I should tailor my writing to sound more like theirs so that I can increase my chances of getting published. But of course, if I did that, I wouldn't sound like myself anymore, and I wouldn't enjoy writing as much.
ReplyDeleteAnd maybe your unique voice will stand out above the rest.
DeleteYes, yes, and yes! Totally agree about letting the story rule. I'm excited about the next IWSG anthology and the WEP merger.
ReplyDeleteSo am I. I should be great!
DeleteGreat advice! You really can't please everyone and reading is definitely subjective. :)
ReplyDelete~Jess
Thanks, Jess
DeleteIt's a pitfall every new writer falls into--listening to every bit of advice until they've over listened. =) I like to believe the journey is similar, but unique for each of us, and accordingly, we should pursue the path that makes the most sense to our journey.
ReplyDeleteOften we have to go through the processes to work out what works best for us too.
DeleteI've always been an against the grain sort of guy. But I think I've learned writing rules fairly well though I break them often I know. If I ever finish anything maybe I'll look for critique partners, but the way I've been going the past couple years maybe it will be a while before that happens. In the meantime I'll blog occasionally and see what happens.
ReplyDeleteArlee Bird
Tossing It Out
Each writer is different--the way they work, their pace, their goals--so every bit of advice must be taken with consideration to the individual needs of the writer and the story they are writing.
DeleteI've polished up and old ms, and beta feedback is coming in. It's definitely better after cutting 10K and giving it a good polish, but (of my author-betas, at least) the feedback coming in is sometimes in conflict or vastly different. It's been difficult to know what to heed and what to disregard. I reached out to non-author readers for more opinions.
ReplyDeleteThere are always those *headslap* why-didn't-I-see-that comments. Those are easy. But learning where to get your betas and how much weight to give their comments is not always easy. I'm getting better at it, but writer insecurity keeps me from ever totally being 100% sure about every last thing.
At the end of the day, it's an educated guess. And, no matter what I do, I'll never be able to please everybody.
Great post! Long time, no see.
It's so true, we can't please everyone. I think critique partners work best when you know them well ie you know what they like, you've learned to read between their lines to get to what exactly it is in the ms that's not working--because not everyone will be able to express it in a way you can understand, without some form of bias, or even with accurately.
DeleteI have a stack of writing advice books because I like reading them and learning from them, but you're right that there are so many conflicting opinions about how to write. Anne Lamott advocates the bad first draft method, whereas I read another book that advises writers to outline their books first. I take what works for me and leave the rest. Personally, I like Lamott's advice about the first drafts because that's less pressure on me.
ReplyDeleteI outline, but it can still be bad...and that's ok. The outline is simply a path to follow while I'm writing that ugly first draft with too much description or not enough etc etc.
DeleteI agree. There are so many conflicting guidelines and opinions about writing out there, but you have to make up your own mind about them and not worry too much about breaking the 'rules', or creativity dies.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Too often we put too much pressure on ourselves.
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